Am Not Him – I Have My Own Dreams

Do Your Parents often Compare You With Someone Else? Telling you should score like him, speak like him, or even look like him. Haha All parents have high expectations for their children. They want kids to study in a good school. Be the topper. But they don't realize there is only one topper in every class and every single student in the class is potential candidates. Parents have dreams about their kids and its not wrong .whats wrong is that in this process of making their kid a bookworm or so-called successful, they don't realize what are they actually doing. Imposing too much pressure on them. Teaching them to compare themselves with others. Because of this, they will always feel inferior about themselves because they are always comparing themselves with a better person. Nowadays parents are destroying their children's childhood which is suppose to be the most amazing time of their life. They encourage kids to doubt themselves and where ever they go they will find a potential competitor. Molding them to be corporate material. Every person is unique, every one is different people have different talents. If parents help their children to find out what they wanna be in life, that would be the greatest gift they can give to their children The only thing parents have…

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As We Grow Old – You Should Read This

Have you ever thought about Growing Older? When we were kids we often think about growing old. Getting married and setting up our own family. Today I saw a grandson helping his Grandfather to get up so that he can take a picture with his Grandparents. When he was taking the picture I look right into the eyes of his grandfather and asked myself is he happy and deep down inside I knew the answer. The grandson took pictures just as a formality and then he got busy with some other stuff. Now the granddad who can barely stand is struggling to sit. He is probably in his 90's and he can't stand or walk by himself. He calls his grandson 5 times repeatedly for his help to sit down again and there was no response, I don't know why no one other than me heard him, there were like 20 people in the same room. The grandson was just 2 feet away and I was more than 10 feet away. I don't know why my eyes flooded, I don't even know these people. I walked towards him and help him sit down. The grandparents sat in the middle of the room and am sitting in the corner of the room. And then I saw no one really…

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I know What You Did – All I Want Is Revenge

Is Their Anyone Who Didn't Think About Taking Revenge? Not Even Once! Naah, everyone thinks about taking revenge. It's necessary to take revenge, isn't it! or is it? Why do you crave revenge? if someone does something bad to you.Because obviously you want them to feel the same pain you felt, but have you ever thought about what would it do to you? Yeah, I know the answer " I don't care" right. You should care because taking revenge on someone can give you relief but at the same time, you will lose something more important and precious than revenge it's your soul. You don't have a clue what am talking about right, let me enlight you. What do you normally do when someone hurt you .you think about hurting them back. And how will you do that, making a perfect plan? How do you come with a plan, obviously by thinking? You will imagine every possible way to torture that person without knowing what will it do to you. Let me say this straight, "It will ruin you". When you think about taking revenge you are no longer you. You are just a mad person who wants to hurt someone very badly. And you don't care what are the consequences, literally, you will become an animal. You…

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How To Understand Someone Better – Chapter 2

How To spot a lie? Do you know how much we lie a day? It's our daily routine and most of the things we hear a day are lies. So how to find out if someone is lying? There are so many gestures that a person uses when he or she is lying. The person who is lying will not make proper eye contact. That's the primary clue he gives away when he lies. A person who lies will always tell a perfect story. Before lying all of us will first make a story in our mind,     and mold it to a perfectly believable story. And we will tell that story like reading a paragraph. The third thing a person does when they lie is to give away too much information. As he made a perfect story for you to hear, he will tell you that story with passion and too many details because its a made-up story and he will try his best to make you believe. When a person is lying they get too emotional. for example, a person who is not so emotional will get emotional when he is telling a lie to you because he is trying his best to make you believe. And if a person is crying the chances of…

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How To Understand Someone Better – Chapter 1

Have You Ever Thought, Only If You Knew Someone Better? Did you ever want to know what's inside another person's mind? We all make mistakes in judging people's character, but you can make it right just by doing some important things. We all want to understand others better, friends, family, and other peoples. In a way understating 30 percent of someone is easy. A person only exposes 10 percent of his character to anyone other than him, 90 percent will be hidden from the society. How much time we spent with a person determines how much we know about him. That's why friends can easily understand one another most of the time. But at the same time, most people are living double or triple lives. Even if how much a person holds back we can identify their real intensions just by observing. Wait a minute, it's a time-consuming process. The more you observe things, people, and living beings around you the more you can understand the world. Every person is different but every person's characters show certain patterns, you just have to mold yourself to such an extent that will show you these patterns with ease. For Example, we can understand if any person is happy, sad, or angry, its not necessary to know that person. Why is…

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Giving Up – A Million Possibilities Of Being Successful

Are You A Person Who Give Up Easly? Have you ever thought giving up will end all your problems and misery? By Giving Up You are always being a coward. Life is hard I know and as I always say you are the maker and breaker of your life. You may feel like you can't keep on going this path or you can't fight anymore, just think about tomorrow at that time, not about today's misery. Think about you will have a better tomorrow. To make a better tomorrow you have to do something, right? Tell me this, if you give up today, what will happen to all your hard work and sufferings till this day. It will all go to waste. You have suffered so much so far and for what, 'nothing'! Did you waste your time and your effort to give up at the end? Always remember you can do anything you want, you are a human. We are weaker than most of the animals in this world but look at us, we are the dominating species in this world. How do you think this happened, because our ancestors did never quit. They fought for their survival even though they are the weakest. Don't take life so seriously, there is no problem in this world that…

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Lenting A Helping Hand – Good Things You Should Know

Have You Helped Someone You Don't Know Without them Asking for help? Maybe you have, or you haven't. You may have the intension to help someone, Either you wait for his request or you just have a starting trouble. You have this starting trouble just because deep inside you think what others will think or in most of the cases you are Crowd shy and you can't bare getting too much attention because everyone will be watching you. What if you step up, you will not be a laughing stock,  this is not a talent hunt. You just need a kind heart to help someone and I believe all humans have kindness inside them, you just have to find it. If you are afraid of getting too much attention just assume it's your loved one, then you can't back out because you can't turn your back on someone you love. So, is it your crowd fear stopping you from helping the needy or is it the fact that you are not trying or simply you don't care. Today I was in a hospital with my friend's father. After checkups, we were in the parking area. The road from the parking area is congested only one vehicle can run at a time, then I see a taxi parked near…

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Loneliness You Bare – Is Just A Flicker Or A Flare

Have you ever felt alone in this world? Even if you got everything, do you feel like there is something missing? Some vacant space inside your heart. finding yourself staring on the ceiling in the middle of the night and thinking. Everyone in this world has felt lonely at some point in their life. It's just a point in life, in which we feel helpless and need someone to talk to. Always remember, don't stare at a big mountain of problems and tell yourself I can't, just find the root of the problem and try to find a solution. You are not alone in this world, you have everything you want. Humans are selfish, we always give priority to ourselves. In this world, humanity, love, and every other thing that aids the value of humans are fading. Parents hurting their own children and siblings killing each other. That's what we can find in news these days. So just calm down and think, at least you are not one of them. You still got a family. Loneliness is a part of our life because that's just the way it is. We are always alone even if we have everyone and everything. For Example: if you are an adopted child. But your parents never told you that you are one…

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A Child’s Wish – A Thousand Words To Say

Have you ever felt abandoned? Like you are a person of no interest to anyone. Maybe your child has felt this way. When you hustle to make money and a better financial and social status, you may lose some pretty important things in your life. You may have a good reason to do this," to give your child a better future or education". But have you ever thought from their perspective, what do you think they want from you? Whatever you do to provide your child with a better future is worthless if you don't give them what they want. When you were young what did you wanted the most? "Attention and love". When you are hustling to make money, most of the time you are forgetting about your child's emotions. Childhood is the most important time of their life And you are sending them to boarding schools. The only time you can love your child as much as you can is when they are young. As they grow older you have to let them find their own way. As soon as you realize you are chasing a ghost, it will be too late. Then you will understand what you have lost during these days. Your child will learn to live with discipline, but will she ever learn…

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I Am Mad, But Are you Sure You Are Not

According to Manish Sudhakar "There is no one called a Good person or a Bad person, Situations decides the character of a Person". You guys must be probably wondering who's Manish Sudhakar, yep its Me Haha. Honestly, I think good and bad are in every single person. We can't discriminate against someone as a completely good man or a bad person. Oh, You don't believe Me right !. Well, it's ok what if I can prove it. If at the beginning of your day someone messes up your mood, then the rest of your day, you will be pissed off. You will be rude to almost everyone you meet. Are you a good person if you be rude to every person without good reasons, doing so you will be ruining someone else's mood. Yeah I know you didn't get the point here, hmm let me clarify your doubts with a much understandable but yet tricky story. If a terrorist-held your loved one hostage and they demand you to kill someone you don't even know, and there will not be any consequence. Would you do that? if you do what they say your friend or family gets saved. But tell me 'Are you a good person if you do that'? Suppose you can't do it, you let your loved…

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